When you walk into a room full of seniors do you find you become exhausted? Do you have a loved one that drains you every time you visit. Do you have a loved one who is barely hanging on? Do you have someone you wish to emotionally disconnect from? They are drawing upon your life force energy to maintain. Try this technique.
First you need to put a PRAYER OF PROTECTION around yourself to keep unwanted negative energies to affect you. Ask for a bubble of protection to remove all negative energy within your energy field. You can also ask for your guides and angels to be there to protect you as well. Include a special spiritual being if you are drawn to them. ie: God, Higher Source, Jesus, Arch Angel Michael, Buddha, Shiva.
Our life force energy is contained within the spinal column. We draw more energy through the crown chakra from source. We also draw it in from the aura (energy field around the body) as well, but the majority of life forces enters through the crown chakras. Visualize a cord going from your umbilicus to their umbilicus (belly button). The more emotional connection you have had to the person, the larger the cord will be. It can be very large like tree roots. You visualize cutting the cord THREE TIMES. Use what feels right to you: sword, knife, chain saw, scissors etc. Make sure you cut the cord THREE TIMES. You may have to go back and cut it whenever you think about them or feel the need to disconnect again. Often we have to do this for a few days as we are very emotional as humans we connect the cords very easily and have to re-cut them. Do this as many times as you feel necessary. You will know or sense when you can stop doing this as emotionally you stop thinking about them or forget to do the exercise.
When Margaret my mother in law was in the nursing home I cut the cords daily to each family member, all our pets and the house. Within a week she passed as she was now surviving on her own energy. Sometimes we are so close to loved ones we don’t recognize they are drawing upon our energy to maintain. Cutting the cords allows them to let go and not drain you. You are NOT changing their choices, just allowing them to make the decision to cross easier. Often the choice to let go is harder as they have fear in letting go. That is also why giving permission is important. Hope this helps. In love and light