There have been only a few times in my life that I have made that statement to a client. I usually share insights that encourage them to do what they wish, share or not. It is a choice.
I was reminded of two teachers from Scarborough that booked readings with me. The first Susan was easy 45 minutes gave her insights and everything that satisfied her that it was a good reading.
Joanne was a different story. I can recall the information being in depth about the future and continued for over 2 hours. What was going to happen. When, how and the action she should take in regards to the information being received. It was what I consider an "INTENSE" session.
This was during the period that I tape recorded my sessions and give the tape to the client. Spirit told her three (3) times not to let anyone listen to the insights. I believe there was some sort of legal issue involved. I honestly do not remember the information I gave her. That is normal as the insight is for you, not me. 
The point I am sharing is that THREE times Joanne was told -"BY SPIRIT" Do NOT let anyone hear this information. It is for your ears only, to help you work through this difficult situation. She was satisfied when she left.
Three hours late I get a phone call. Alva my tape is blank. I ask: "Who were you sharing the information with?" She says that irrelevant. I state "NO" three times you were told it is privileged information to assist you. Do not let anyone hear the tape or it would be erased. She was very irate and yelled at me. I took the money she had paid for the session and put it into an envelope for both ladies and mailed it immediately. My work is an exchange of energy. I felt that the energy exchange was not good and I did not wish to have the money. It was not in my best interest. 
Being strong doesn’t mean you have to stay and fight all the battles and petty arguments that come your way or respond to rude remarks. Don’t retort by throwing insults back at them. It’s what they want. Keep your dignity and don’t lower yourself to their level.                            in love and light

 

Teaching and Travelling
Driving home after teaching Development Classes is often a slower drive than the drive to Oshawa. Amazed by how fast those passing in the left-hand lane are traveling in the nasty weather. I would like to live for a long time so I drive according to road conditions, often it is 10 klm below what is posted. Living in the country on a dirt road can be a challenge. Last night was the worst since I moved here two years ago. The main Hwy 35/115 road conditions change at the Tapley Road Exit and it is time to be extreme caution often slowing down more due to Fog, Snow or Sleet.
This also happens as I turn on Frank Hill Road, the last 3 klm home. Last night it was not salted and I had three cars behind me. Not much common sense there, as If I had stopped there would have been a rear-end accident. Often wonder if some of the drivers got their license in a cracker jack box! Ya, that is sarcasm.
You could see the build-up of ice on the road so I slowed down even more.
I took my foot off the gas to slow down even more before the turn onto Lawrence Street as both ends of the dirt road have a steep grade. Wow! no control and slid into the mound of snow at the bottom of the hill. Thought I was going to take out the ugly hedge in front of that house. Fortunately for me, the snow plow mounds the snow on this curve and it stopped my car. Gently backed up moved the car slowly on the icy road the four houses down the street and prayed the garage doors would open quickly to allow me to slide into my garage without an incident. Not much concerns me driving and I am slow and
cautious but black ice is treacherous and leaves you with no control. Delighted that those above travel with me and keep my acute awareness of conditions while driving. I am truly blessed with love and light to guide whatever I do. Thank You to those that travel with me. in love and light

Payment
   
Money is an exchange of ENERGY. It is ok to  GIVE  message to some people.
However: when you give consistently they become EXPECTANT
Example: I was Pastor for 24 years. Did what was appropriate for everyone in the congregation as it was my responsibility. I Did not get paid. When someone wanted to do a workshop and said they could not afford it. They were welcome to do the workshop without paying. No questions asked.
Once one of the members who praised me consistently wanted help, I did not get back to them asap ( 3 days) as I was SICK.
She wrote a scathing one-page article on facebook maligning me, as she felt I was ignoring her. How I only worked with those I favoured. I ignored those in need. etc. etc. I was quickly informed and had it removed. How many people reading it, that do not know me would assume I was not a fair person. One negative comment makes more waves than man/several positive ones..... Proven fact
 
The point is, when you give it away it is often becomes EXPECTED and NOT RESPECTED.  The other understanding I have learned from experience is that the individual is often enabled  to stay stuck  EMOTIONALLY, not taking responsibility for moving forward or working through the issues/problem.
 
 I have spent thousands - no idea - on going to courses, and traveling to learn. Polarity Therapy 3 year course. Hypnosis -. Meditation. Studying in Hawaii $5,000 and in Two trips to Peru probably$10,000.  This is just scratching the surface.
 
When clients pay :THEY PAY MORE ATTENTION to what you are giving them. They can CHOOSE not to follow, however, they RESPECT as they are paying. It does not have to be monetary it can be an exchange of services
 
 You can beginning to see how much and exchange of energy is important.
 
 
Sometimes you just need to let go.

When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop trying with some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”