When people treat you wrong, or not appropriately, you need to know it is their lesson, not yours. Recently Dorothy (in spirit) dropped into a session I was doing. I was surprised with her visit knowing she really didn’t care for me. So was surprised at statements. It went something like this. You know I did not really like you. I did not treat you fairly. I preferred Tom’s first Wife. She did what I wanted. You were independent and did not follow my wishes. Therefore, I did not do what was right by you. I said yes I was aware. She said I have come in to tell you I am sorry that this is how it was. I understand so much more now. You are a good person do a lot of good work. I said thank you I am aware that you did not do right by me. I also stated. This is your lesson to learn, not mine. I was OK then. I am OK now and I will be OK in the future. My only request is that you take care of my kids the best you can.
I do not hold grudges. Who am I to judge you, I may be aware of why some of your actions and or soul lesson, but not your entire life. As the natives say “Walk a mile in my moccasins”. I try to treat everyone with respect. I do not have to like you, to do right by you and/or respect you. I will always do the best I can to assist or help in any way. It is your personal responsibility to treat others the way you wish them to treat you.
Spirit often comes back to those they have mistreated to apologize or right a wrong. Sometimes they have messages or information that needs to be addressed by the family. They often leave coins, turn on/off lights to make you aware of their presence.
Please note: I was given a powerful workshop by spirit on" Forgiveness" to assist others. In love and light