I was engaged to my first Husband, Walter. Every Saturday and Sunday Night we went dancing. I was in heaven. He loved me and the passion to dance as much as I did. I even danced on Roller skates growing up. That is how I met this husband John. That is a whole other story.
One Sunday he called to say he could not keep our date. I accepted his explanation and never gave it another thought. So Wednesday Nights were movie nights for us. On Wednesday night as he walked through the door. I looked at him and asked:"Was it worth it"?. He turned red and said "What are you talking about"? I asked "Was the little French Canadian girl worth breaking our date?" He broke into tears apologized saying he would never do it again. I accepted his apology. They say love is blind. Actually I believe the ego gets in the way as you don't want to believe that if someone loves you they would do this.
Yes, 5 years later we separated. I was a prize possession, not a partner to share everything with. This lovely man was not the individual that would be a companion and future life partner. I moved on. Do not lie to a Medium, they may not say anything, but it does not mean they don't KNOW.
"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." in love and light