Money is an exchange of ENERGY. It is ok to GIVE message to some people.
However: when you give consistently they become EXPECTANT
Example: I was Pastor for 24 years. Did what was appropriate for everyone in the congregation as it was my responsibility. I Did not get paid. When someone wanted to do a workshop and said they could not afford it. They were welcome to do the workshop without paying. No questions asked.
Once one of the members who praised me consistently wanted help, I did not get back to them asap ( 3 days) as I was SICK.
She wrote a scathing one-page article on facebook maligning me, as she felt I was ignoring her. How I only worked with those I favoured. I ignored those in need. etc. etc. I was quickly informed and had it removed. How many people reading it, that do not know me would assume I was not a fair person. One negative comment makes more waves than man/several positive ones..... Proven fact
The point is, when you give it away it is often becomes EXPECTED and NOT RESPECTED. The other understanding I have learned from experience is that the individual is often enabled to stay stuck EMOTIONALLY, not taking responsibility for moving forward or working through the issues/problem.
I have spent thousands - no idea - on going to courses, and traveling to learn. Polarity Therapy 3 year course. Hypnosis -. Meditation. Studying in Hawaii $5,000 and in Two trips to Peru probably$10,000. This is just scratching the surface.
When clients pay :THEY PAY MORE ATTENTION to what you are giving them. They can CHOOSE not to follow, however, they RESPECT as they are paying. It does not have to be monetary it can be an exchange of services
You can beginning to see how much and exchange of energy is important.
Sometimes you just need to let go.
When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop trying with some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”