When we love someone deeply we can choose NOT TO LISTEN to the words being spoken.
This is a hard one for many to know. They may actually say. No, I won’t see you tomorrow/I won’t be here next visit. Sometimes we dismiss this statement and reply with a laugh or oh right. Please take the next statement with the insight and love I am sharing and do not feel this is about material issues as it is not. It is about taking care of business on behalf all family.
Make sure the legal will is in the hands of those who will deal with it appropriately. I have seen too many families ripped apart and squabble over money, possession and even the wishes of loved ones being ignored. Enough said.
One of the first sings that an individual is preparing to leave is giving their precious possessions away. Now this could be close or a few weeks away. Higher self knows when the body is preparing. They might not know it consciously, however, I believe they are not saying to openly but are very aware. They may not want to share these with family. The second one is telling you what they want for a funeral service etc.
I was writing exams on Horticulture as I was a Humber College .I studying and Tom called me into the living room and ask me to watch The John Candy special being present in Toronto after his passing.
As I sat there he said I do not want a Police Funeral. I replied with oh Tom, you have 25 years on the force. Why would you even say that? He was an excellent police office and respected by many.He raised his voice a few octaves and said. Al are you listening to me. I do not want a Police Funeral and especially no one in uniform. I have become disillusioned with the attitude of those in charge and those are my wishes. So, I stated I hear you and I am listening.
Little did I know the next day he would pass with a heart attack? I made a lot of Toronto officers angry including his Supervisor at the time. When I spoke to her I shared his wishes and told her her if they showed up in uniform I would personally escort them out. She replied wit,h you won’t. I said don’t try me on for size. I would and am very capable.
However, his wishes were followed and I did change one wish I wanted 2 of his friends in uniform as Guards. I felt after 25 years his work needed to be represented. Today is the anniversary. In love and light